Nicole Fidler

First Live Conversation Experience

‘PHONE CALL’ WITH CHARLIE

I can’t quite wrap my head around what happened yesterday afternoon, on the 25 February, 2021. I actually had a telephone conversation with my son in Spirit! The whole experience was so completely mind blowing, yet also so incredibly natural all at once.

The best way I can describe it was just like putting in a long distance call to a relative on the other side of the globe, but this was no ordinary call, or no ordinary relative. I actually got to speak to my 8 year old son Charlie who has been in Spirit for the past 11 years!

Through Sally’s wonderful ability to connect loved ones across the veil using just her iPhone, I was able to chat with my Charlie, as though he was simply sitting on the other end of a phone line.

I started by asking him some pre-prepared questions, whilst Sally acted as our ‘Go Between’, using live sound waves that she had recorded with Charlie earlier in the day. The output from these sound waves were somehow being altered as Charlie and I spoke, to allow for a real time conversation between us.

Sally played me Charlie’s replies as we went along, and I could make sense of his words by the intonation in his voice, but it took Sally’s finely tuned intuition to fully interpret what he was saying.

Together we talked about Charlie’s cherished Grandad and what Grandad had been doing that day (all of which he had seen). We then had an amusing conversation where I asked Charlie if he knew whose birthday it was that day, and he admitted he ‘Couldn’t remember’! But he then blew me away by talking about my friend Caroline’s birthday that had actually happened only last week. Such a wonderful validation.

 

Part way through our conversation I had to swap from my laptop to iPhone and was having difficulty logging back into the Zoom meet up. Unbeknownst to me Charlie was with me during this time and was simultaneously relaying back to Sally that ‘Mum is having trouble getting back on’. How incredible is it to think he was chatting to Sally in Florida whilst also being with me at the same time in the UK?!

As our phone chat came to a happy close, Charlie saved the best bit until last, with him letting me know that he was standing right beside me, sending me his love. Nothing could have been more precious than that, to know my beautiful boy was right beside me and that he loves me still.

I feel so incredibly privileged to be part of Sally’s pioneering work and even more privileged to have been able to actually speak to my son once more. There truly is nothing more healing than being with your child once more, even if it is for a short while.

I have come away from the whole experience feeling elated and reassured that Charlie is very much alive and well and so comforted in the knowledge that he is often around us, his family, wrapping us up in his love.

Thank you Sally from the bottom of our hearts, for the most precious gift today, a reunion of a very special kind between a mum and her beloved son in Spirit.

Nicole & Charlie ❤️

Second Live Conversation Experience

On 3rd May, 2021, I had the most wonderful ‘live’ conversation with my son Charlie, facilitated by the amazing Sally Stacey. Charlie was so excited at the prospect of talking to me that he dropped in on Sally earlier today, to remind her about our upcoming Zoom chat! 

It was truly incredible getting to talk to my son again. He was happy and playful and talked about the signs he has recently been sending me and told me that he was playing with the lights in my room as we were speaking! They were indeed flickering all through our conversation! 

He also commented on the picture behind me in my bedroom, a handprint of his when he was little and he also commented on the picture of sunflowers in Sally’s office, which I couldn’t see until Sally turned the camera to show me them. He said they have sunflowers where he is too…

Charlie then asked if my Grandad could say Hello. So I had a few lovely words with him and also my Great Uncle Jim who passed when I was little.🌻

Charlie also told me that we could both connect at home in my living room at sunrise. So I am very much looking forward to trying that out with him soon. He also asked after his younger sister, my daughter Izzy and said he wanted to talk to her soon too. 

He sent so much love and it is clear he wanted to talk to me as much as I wanted to talk to him. I feel so comforted that Charlie is happy and safe with family and that his life is continuing, running right alongside my own. 

I am truly grateful to Sally for connecting me with my son once more. There really is nothing like spending that time together, chatting naturally just like we always did. Thank you so much Sally. 

Third Live Conversation Experience

Last Saturday, on 29th January, 2022, my husband Jason and I were blessed with a wonderful live conversation with our darling Charlie. Our beautiful 8 year old was as playful as ever, joking with us and making us smile with his funny little ways and comments. 

This is my second session with Charlie so I knew what to expect from the session, but Jason was quietly in awe of the whole process. He couldn’t quite believe that our little boy was actually there talking to us! 

Jason doesn’t have the same daily connection as I do with Charlie, so the session was made all the more special when Sally’s team adjusted the communication frequency, for Jason to actually be able to hear the words Charlie was saying! It was such a magical moment for him. 

There was so much love shared all round and I am so delighted that Jason was able to spend this beautiful time chatting to Charlie. This is just what he needed to help him move forward on his healing journey. I can’t thank you enough Sally for bringing this precious gift to them both. ❤️

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